About Important Secrets??

[realistic]

Do you like to keep secrets or tell others?
I am the one who do not like to keep secrets.
If possible, I would not hide things. I would find someone to talk to. Keeping secrets is such an uncomfortable thing to me. So, you can say I have no secret of myself. However, of course, I will not tell others my friends' secrets. I zip my month definitely on that. I usually tell my friends not to let me know their secrets, as I do not want to store them.
What about you?

[GeeOne]

Do you like to keep secrets or tell others?
I am the one who do not like to keep secrets.
If possible, I would not hide things. I would find someone to talk to. Keeping secrets is such an uncomfortable thing to me. So, you can say I have no secret of myself. However, of course, I will not tell others my friends' secrets. I zip my month definitely on that. I usually tell my friends not to let me know their secrets, as I do not want to store them.
What about you?

I think you must not tell all the secrets to every one, it's depend some secrets can be share with some one only :)

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[Suman]

I never tell my secrets. If I'm promised not to tell other's secret, I keep it secret as long as it's likely to cause harm.

[nurit]

Sometimes, a thing is better as a secret.. you know, there's a thing that irreversible, once you said it, then you must take it for whole of your life.
say what's necessary, that's the best. keep everything as a secret is not good though, God created us as a social beings instead of individual. everyone needs someone to talk.

[Gtoo]

To make "Great" bread, you have to have a great oven. A deck oven. without it, you'll never get that crust that you should.

[FoxWalker]

Secrets are meant not to tell to anyone. I don't share very important secrets to anyone. I will share some secrets with my mom.

[richardvesely]

Secrets are Secrets. If they are shared with others it will no longer be a secret.

It depends, if its something important secret then it will be better not to tell to anyone.

[Badmash]

Depends on many things , if that secret can harm many lifes than its better to forget that or keep in mind as a proof to use against your opposite person ....

[njtigereye]

Of course keep them! That's why they are called secrets in the first place LOL. But there are moments when I can't help it especially if it's something important.

[KimmyChameleon]

I feel privileged if people tell me secrets, like I feel special. Many people confide in me about a lot of things cause they consider me to be a person they can freely open up to. I wouldn't spread it for gossip or rumours, but as Badmash said - if the secret was about an enemy of mine I would possibly use it against them, if the situation arose.

[GeeOne]

Ok, there are chances that you may use the secrets against them :(

And in case if your current good friend become your enemy?

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I feel privileged if people tell me secrets, like I feel special. Many people confide in me about a lot of things cause they consider me to be a person they can freely open up to. I wouldn't spread it for gossip or rumours, but as Badmash said - if the secret was about an enemy of mine I would possibly use it against them, if the situation arose.

[KimmyChameleon]

I don't like it when I'm vengeful, but I can't help it if people hurt me. I don't know, it's in my nature :( I don't always do it, these days I try to be careful.

If someone currently hurt me and I wanted to be vengeful, I would be tempted. It depends how much I value their friendship, how close I am to them, and if they have hurt me before.
If they had hurt me before and been a bad friend and weren't close, the chances of me being vengeful is kind of likely. But I might not be like that by using secrets against them. A lot of my relationships have fallen apart and I have been tempted to do bad things, but I restrain myself.


Ok, there are chances that you may use the secrets against them :(

And in case if your current good friend become your enemy?

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[Mr.FM]

My policy is simple for this kind of cases, I just avoid speaking about him or her (not good not bad)

Believe me this help a lot, and in the process our image get more high :)

[bensonbarton]

for me. i can keep secret, it's ok for me , because sth is really u cannot say it out.

[master412160]

Secrets like your your best friend has a girlfriend but you know she is cheating, you should tell your friend. But as results both break up or make up, and the girlfriend will feel bad thanks to you

[charan]

i dont keep any secrets with me

[master412160]

lol, what do you say ? I don't understand, try other sentence structure.

also to add to this discussion, there are many types of secrets, of some you MUST always tell and for some you can choose.

[charan]

i mean to say i share everything with my friends or family

[Badmash]

I always keep few secrets and never share them with friends or family when I think that by sharing info they can also get upset or disturbed ..

[TheBond]

Same here i hate to keep secrets but if i must i must :S

[Miss Matt]

I will keep any secret given to me, unless the secret is one that will mean harm to the person who told it. Let's say someone tells you the following:


Hey, please don't tell anyone what I'm about to tell you. I'm sick of life, and thinking about committing suicide. No one will miss me.

Would you tell someone about that? I would, I would do my best to get my friend counceling.

As for me, I tell only one person in this world everything and that's my best friend.